What are ways to raise self-confidence? By Bruce Starr The LUVCOACH By serving or helping others! Until we are willing to change the way we do things, the results will remain the same. If we want to change, we first need to change our mind about our goals and what success is. The first thing we need to do is to find a way to feel better about ourselves first. One way to feel better about ourselves is to distract ourselves from our own gloomy thoughts is to volunteer your time